Tabbing with ActiveX controls and VB5

I have tried creating activeX controls for use with VB5 using the ActiveX
wizard in BCCB3 and also the Apiary activeX wizard with Delphi 2. Both give
the same problem; with even a simple VCL (even just using TEdit) I end up
with an ActiveX control that allows the user to tab onto it but not off
again when placed on a VB form.

Nor can I find a way to set the VB form as the parent of the control to try
to force it into the VB tab order that way (ie hack it <g>).

I have mailed Apiary twice over this in the last few weeks without reply and
the situation is getting desperate - any help would be highly appreciated !

TIA

Brian Leach, Development Manager, ADG.