The Wacky Toolbar!

Hi

In my app i have a toolbar with 4 Toolbarbuttons.

I want to have an image at the top of the buttons and a description below.
So i set the imageindex and Toolbar.showcaptions. But when i do that all
buttons get a small size. And i cant resize the buttons to the width and
height i want them to be. Why?

Also, i want a small image to be at the right of the toolbar (as seen in
popular programs). But i cant align the image to the right. The toolbar
insist of aligning the image by the last dropped button in the toolbar.
How can i make this happen?

Thanx In Advance
Bob