Network live updates with a Paradox table and BDE

HELP,

I am trying to get a multi-user Paradox table working over a network. I
need live updates from one program writing to the table, and the other
program seeing the changes AS THEY HAPPEN. This Paradox thing doesnt seem
to be able to do it. I have not used cached tables, but I have to close one
program before the other program can see the changes. I have tried a TTimer
and refreshed the table, but that dont work! Any ideas - FoxPro did it,
surely BDE can do it!!!

Cheers