Drag & Drop ONTO a DBGrid

I need to be able to drop a record onto a DbGrid and have it insert
itself on the place it was dropped. The DBGrid has it's DragMode set to
dmManual so if I first click on the row I want then drag to the grid I
get the result I want, but it would really be nice not to have to do
I'm using the InfoPower wwTDbGrid which has the ability to give me the
current grid coordinates that I'm on, but I can't figure out how to tell
what record that is in the table. Dead end so far..:(
I have also tried to call a DbGrid MouseDown event and passing in the
mouse coordinates, but this seemed to have no effect..:(

Does anyone have any suggestions???